Dear Grapes
Please can we bear in mind that this is a family gardening forum, and whilst general chat is actively encouraged, we must be aware that not all contributors are all in agreement on all topics.
Very occasionally, the Mods have to try and sort out individual disagreements, or close a thread [either for a cooling-off period or for good], or even to delete a thread in its entirety.
None of us take any of this lightly, we do try and limit our work to keeping the spammers away from the site, and thank all of you who diligently make us aware of situations that need looking at. We do try and only 'light moderate' wherever possible.
We do however, have to take a wider viewpoint and if any Grapes do feel that we have made the wrong decision, we can be contacted to discuss any actions on our part. We would like to do this outside of the general forum in the first instance wherever possible, as sometimes things are personal and aren't best in a public forum. We also have no way of knowing if we have upset anyone and cannot PM everyone on a thread that has been closed or deleted, it is just not possible to do so every time.
Part of our wider viewpoint is that this is a public forum and therefore if you discuss (say) something that has happened to a friend or neighbour, you aren't, in fact, telling a few friends in confidence but potentially 1000s of strangers. Same goes for if you discuss your own medical details, family difficulties etc.
Whilst people haven't named names, there have been quite a few threads recently that, whilst well meant, have discussed quite intimate details about other people's lives. Should anyone feel the 'need', it generally wouldn't be that hard to track down the identities of those concerned.
We also all have lives outside of the Vine, as this is not a day job, and we all dip in and out - on all days [and nights] of the week. In order to contact us, at the bottom of the forum home page is a link called 'view forum leaders'. If Grapes click on this, Grapes can see who is online and send a PM or an email to any of us and we will look into the matter.
Please remember to:
Keep it courteous
Try not to stray into contentious or 'near the knuckle' territory
Spats will simply be locked or deleted - we do not have time to monitor each and every post
Remember that this is not a 'free speech' forum, but a lively gardening forum.
Yours.
The Mods.
*reminder of the rules that everyone signed up to:
By agreeing to these rules, you warrant that you will not post any messages that are obscene, vulgar, sexually-oriented, hateful, threatening, or otherwise violative of any laws.
The owners of The Grapevine reserve the right to remove, edit, move or close any thread for any reason.
Please can we bear in mind that this is a family gardening forum, and whilst general chat is actively encouraged, we must be aware that not all contributors are all in agreement on all topics.
Very occasionally, the Mods have to try and sort out individual disagreements, or close a thread [either for a cooling-off period or for good], or even to delete a thread in its entirety.
None of us take any of this lightly, we do try and limit our work to keeping the spammers away from the site, and thank all of you who diligently make us aware of situations that need looking at. We do try and only 'light moderate' wherever possible.
We do however, have to take a wider viewpoint and if any Grapes do feel that we have made the wrong decision, we can be contacted to discuss any actions on our part. We would like to do this outside of the general forum in the first instance wherever possible, as sometimes things are personal and aren't best in a public forum. We also have no way of knowing if we have upset anyone and cannot PM everyone on a thread that has been closed or deleted, it is just not possible to do so every time.
Part of our wider viewpoint is that this is a public forum and therefore if you discuss (say) something that has happened to a friend or neighbour, you aren't, in fact, telling a few friends in confidence but potentially 1000s of strangers. Same goes for if you discuss your own medical details, family difficulties etc.
Whilst people haven't named names, there have been quite a few threads recently that, whilst well meant, have discussed quite intimate details about other people's lives. Should anyone feel the 'need', it generally wouldn't be that hard to track down the identities of those concerned.
We also all have lives outside of the Vine, as this is not a day job, and we all dip in and out - on all days [and nights] of the week. In order to contact us, at the bottom of the forum home page is a link called 'view forum leaders'. If Grapes click on this, Grapes can see who is online and send a PM or an email to any of us and we will look into the matter.
Please remember to:
Keep it courteous
Try not to stray into contentious or 'near the knuckle' territory
Spats will simply be locked or deleted - we do not have time to monitor each and every post
Remember that this is not a 'free speech' forum, but a lively gardening forum.
Yours.
The Mods.
*reminder of the rules that everyone signed up to:
By agreeing to these rules, you warrant that you will not post any messages that are obscene, vulgar, sexually-oriented, hateful, threatening, or otherwise violative of any laws.
The owners of The Grapevine reserve the right to remove, edit, move or close any thread for any reason.
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