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Stay safe Mamzie, and maybe try to not worry too much. Just do what you can, but find stuff to do that you think is relaxing and takes your mind off it all too.
Don't you find that it's getting a bit much to deal with? I mean, I'm really quite resilient, and fit and healthy, but it's really getting to me how people talk to each other on social media and how ignorant some people are - both in being over-cautious and not cautious enough.... and most of all, who knew there were so many bossy boots out there!
I need a hobby that I can do when I can't do gardening
You may believe that makes him worth more than others but me, not so much. If your daughter was working at his holiday home would you be quite so sanguine about the disregard for the rules that everyone should be obeying?
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1574 gin and tonics please Monica, large ones.
I kinda did take precautions - we ordered another trailer of compost which was delivered Monday evening before country shut down. I didn't go near him, and for the last week my family have realised how serious this all is, not just me worrying.
The last place I went out of town was the seed swap end of Feb. And I stopped leaving house & garden 12 days ago. We have a number of lovely Italian ladies at Mass, and they were warning us all weeks ago. I am so grateful to Italy for screaming the alarm from the rooftops. The pain they have shared so publicly have made other countries act faster and saved a lot of people. We just need to ensure it wasn't in vain x
Anything is possible with the right attitude, a hammer
and a roll of duct tape.
Weeds have mastered the art of survival, if they are not in your way, let them feed bees
You may believe that makes him worth more than others but me, not so much. If your daughter was working at his holiday home would you be quite so sanguine about the disregard for the rules that everyone should be obeying?
How do you know he's disregarded the rules? Are you the NHS doctor he saw?
To see a world in a grain of sand
And a heaven in a wild flower
There were guards at the entrance of the hospital tonight when I was leaving for the day. I didn't take enough notice to remember if they're police or security, but either way they were stopping everyone coming through to check if they work there.
I must have missed them. Either that, or they thought I looked so dodgy they were happy to see me leaving!
I tried to go to Lidl this evening (freshly showered, clean clothes, bank cards wiped down etc) but they are now closing two hours earlier than usual and I got turned away. No mention of a change to their opening hours on their website, which is frustrating as I went in the evening to minimise my contact with others and was hoping to just pick up a few bits of fresh stuff to supplement the dried stuff I have at home and avoid shopping again for the next three weeks.
Since I was out anyway, I thought I'd try and pick up some bits and bobs from a mini supermarket (think an Express or a Local) instead. But I had the temerity to smile at their crazy system where you and the shop assistant have to repeatedly step away from the counter so you are never too close together. Felt like country dancing! Maybe I should have shuffled rather than taken a big step? Maybe the big steps looked sarcastic somehow? (Though she pretty much ran away from the counter each time I was due to step up, so she was definitely behaving more dramatically than me!) I thought it was a rueful, this is crazy times, sort of chuckle and head shake, but the shop assistant was way on edge and I got screamed at. I should have known better. She had already barked at me to move away from the counter (rather than asking me to step back politely because it was a brand new system that I obviously wouldn't know about yet) and responded very snottily to my attempt to make conversation (with hindsight, I didn't choose the best opener), so I think she took my laughing at the situation as me laughing at her
It's rather ruffled my feathers
I guess she was just scared and only has a very basic knowledge of what we are dealing with. I'm much more aware of what the actual risks are, and am facing much greater risk than her everyday, but understanding those risks means I can feel I have some control over them. I'm lucky that my life has changed less than most - I'm still going to work every day and my basic job is the same, just with a coronavirus spin! It's probably hard for me to appreciate just how out of control some people feel, when I'm out there tackling the problem head on. At least you could argue I chose a profession where this was a risk, but that's hardly true of someone working in a supermarket!
How do you know he's disregarded the rules? Are you the NHS doctor he saw?
Yes. I'm the NHS doctor he saw.
Don't go to your holiday home is the government advice. Apparently if people disregard it and put others in danger then there will be consequences.
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1574 gin and tonics please Monica, large ones.
ah, Self Contained, she is most likely absolutely terrified and likely had abuse thrown at her during the shift. I can understand how upset you too must be.
My uncle is lost, he is mid 70s, his day consists of strolling to collect daily paper, chat along way, feed a few stray cats, over to my Great Aunts 98 for early tea, visit another rotating family member... Now we have banned him from leaving his garden. Tomorrow we move a bench there so he can sit outside and talk as people pass, not his suggestion of leaning on the gate..
Anything is possible with the right attitude, a hammer
and a roll of duct tape.
Weeds have mastered the art of survival, if they are not in your way, let them feed bees
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