I completely understand where you're coming from Maria. However, I DON'T know the children - simply knew approximately where in the village they live and have since been told by our neighbours what the family name is and that the whole family is a pain.
And I know that shouting does very little - to be honest we've taken the 'just ignore it' approach, because as a teacher I am used to taking on the calm tone and talking rather than shouting.
However, AS a teacher, I would find it a bit of a Busmans holiday to 'invite' these children in to my home or garden, when, as much as I love kids (it's the littlies I like not the big uns) when I'm at home I don't really want them encroaching on my limited free time. Of course it would be different if they were my own children or the kids of family or friends.
I also suspect that, even if they took up an opportunity to 'help' in the garden, they may then read this as a signal to come in whenever they feel, which I'm afraid I simply do not want, and frankly, which I don't think should be encouraged.
Luckily, (dare I speak too soon!) these past few nights have been quiet - we last heard from them on Wednesday evening, and then I think it was only the once.
And I know that shouting does very little - to be honest we've taken the 'just ignore it' approach, because as a teacher I am used to taking on the calm tone and talking rather than shouting.
However, AS a teacher, I would find it a bit of a Busmans holiday to 'invite' these children in to my home or garden, when, as much as I love kids (it's the littlies I like not the big uns) when I'm at home I don't really want them encroaching on my limited free time. Of course it would be different if they were my own children or the kids of family or friends.
I also suspect that, even if they took up an opportunity to 'help' in the garden, they may then read this as a signal to come in whenever they feel, which I'm afraid I simply do not want, and frankly, which I don't think should be encouraged.
Luckily, (dare I speak too soon!) these past few nights have been quiet - we last heard from them on Wednesday evening, and then I think it was only the once.
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