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a day (well, 5 hours actually) on my plot - still faffing with the fencing but that is now complete - runner bean trench dug ready for my slops, base for shed skimmed
I don't know if I have anything as dramatic as SAD but spending this afternoon on my plot with all four kids behaving and helping out in the sunshine... just made my soul sing
I was feeling part of the scenery
I walked right out of the machinery
My heart going boom boom boom
"Hey" he said "Grab your things
I've come to take you home."
I think today must be the day that everyone on the Grapevine "gets going". I started digging and planning - KK tidied up one of the outbuildings to make a workshop and the sunset was spectacular. Potatoes now set to chit in the "shed" and a good bit of the garden has been dug ready for them.
You're right Piskie - better than Prozac
A garden is a lovesome thing, God wot! (Thomas Edward Brown)
There's now an increasing realization among health professionals that growing your own is actually beneficial. There are projects springing up all over the place to provide 'Eco-therapy' (in English, gardening) experience for people with depressive illnesses. Makes you quite smug to realize that we'd figured this out all for ourselves. But if it helps people - which I'm sure it does - then I'm all in favour.
Into each life some rain must fall........but this is getting ridiculous.
Wonderful to have a couple of dry days in a row and get outdoors and do something.
I have CFS (or ME) and took up veg growing to encourage me to take gentle exercise - there are days where I would not do anything if I didn't have plants to check! It keeps me moving when I would rather not bother due to pain and that is great. And of course there is the wonder of planting those tiny seeds like the calabrese I sowed today and knowing that you will get a meal from it in the future!
yaay for shirl - my pal has CFS (ME) and I believe your approach is the best, not that I know of what I speak, but I am constantly trying to get him involved in 'gentle' gardening things - I hope he comes through it
yaay for shirl - my pal has CFS (ME) and I believe your approach is the best, not that I know of what I speak, but I am constantly trying to get him involved in 'gentle' gardening things - I hope he comes through it
The main problem (for someone who was previously as active as me anyhoo) is adapting to not doing too much. When I get a 'good' day I have to be very careful not to do the things I want to catch up with. The doctor said to look at it that if I wanted to do the whole pile of ironing I should throw that idea away and manage a quarter of it. If you do everything you can on that one day then you suffer for maybe weeks after. Better to do the quarter and have an okay day when you can do a little more.
That kind of explains why my garden expands by a few feet a year compared to others who take on an overgrown lottie and get it all producing in the first 6 months! Boy is it frustrating!!
That kind of explains why my garden expands by a few feet a year compared to others who take on an overgrown lottie and get it all producing in the first 6 months! Boy is it frustrating!!
no hun, it is all subjective, it matters not how much you get done compared to others - compare yourself only with yourself, that is where true growth/improvement happens
no hun, it is all subjective, it matters not how much you get done compared to others - compare yourself only with yourself, that is where true growth/improvement happens
That's so true but it is hard to do as well. I don't have CFS/ME but I do have a chronic illness that means I'm not always as I might be. The temptation (pressure?) to 'get a grip' or 'be normal' is intense... but definitely not always (or ever) the right thing in the long term.
I was feeling part of the scenery
I walked right out of the machinery
My heart going boom boom boom
"Hey" he said "Grab your things
I've come to take you home."
That's so true but it is hard to do as well. I don't have CFS/ME but I do have a chronic illness that means I'm not always as I might be. The temptation (pressure?) to 'get a grip' or 'be normal' is intense... but definitely not always (or ever) the right thing in the long term.
So totally agree. My dad just can't understand why I have days where I can't do anythihg but I look fine.
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