Sad news

[Headfry]

Tammy my thoughts and all my hugs for you.
We are all here for you, should you need us.
Love Sue

[Seahorse]

I'm so sorry Tammy. I'd agree with knitting, stitching, crosswords, computer games, anything like that. Things that need your attention but not too much brain power.

Take good care of yourself.

[fiveravens]

My sincere condolences.

[AllieB]

I am so sorry Tammy. I agree with the others who have suggested various crafts as therapy.

[quark1]

Tammy - How very sad.....words can never fully convey the sadness or sympathy felt by those not immediately affected by this kind of tragic loss.

I'm sure there are many supportive people here who will be only too willing to lend an ear if you need to sound off. Especially those with personal experience of this. I simply thank heaven that I am not one of that number - but there for the grace.

Time, of course, will help but, in the meantime, give yourself and your partner/family time and space to grieve the loss.

I can't suggest anything more than has already - except to look after yourself and if you need extra help from the docs - don't delay in getting it - no-one will think any the less of you if you have to ask for help.

We'll be here for you if you need us.
Take care.

[Rockhag]

Sorry to hear that sweety.

[paulab]

Really, really sorry to hear this news - have you got cross stitch patterns cos I could scan and send if you would like.

[vicky]

So sorry to hear your sad news.
My brother and his wife recently lost their daughter, so I have been grieving too.
It does get easier with time, but sometimes you can be fine and other times crying in a corner.
Advice? Let it out, it's ok to be sad, talk to people, achieve small goals and just try to survive until you are able to live again.
With lots of hugs (and tears!), Vicky

[Nicos]

What sad news.
I'm really sorry for you and your OH.
It must be a very difficult time for you both- remember that your hormones are now having to sort themselves out so you're going to feel out of sorts on top of your grieving.
I hope you are able to talk through how you feel with someone when you feel the time is right.
Do look after yourself and hopefully at least gain a small comfort in knowing that you can at least conceive .
My thoughts are with you
xx

[kirsty b]

My brother and his girlfriend recently lost their baby too and they are both still extremely upset as is the rest of the family.
Big hugs to you both.

[lozza_9]

sorry to hear your sad news, I lost a baby about 2 years ago, we decided not to tell anyone, no parents and we got thought it together.

I now have a 6 month old baby boy.

trying to think what helped me and I think I just tried to get on with normal life.

I wish you the best of luck and send you loads of hugs

Lorraine

[lottielady]

The same thing happened to me between having my children and although hard it does get easier although it sometimes doesn't feel that way. Make sure you both talk and don't bottle anything up as in the long run it won't help. Very sorry Love and hugs to you and your family.

[Tracey]

So sorry about your loss Tammy. It may help your mourning process if you could create a special craft item in the baby's memory. Maybe the rest of your family could suggest colours for the project.

Tracey x

[MrsC]

Tammy, big hug and everything else I can think of right now, have been there myself, take care, if you need to talk then feel free to pm, take care, another big hug xxxxx

[gardenplot]

I am so so sorry to hear your sad news Tammy.
Don't bottle anything up let it out
Big hugs to you both XXX