Sorry having a tearful moment...worried about friend

[Finedon.Dandy]

Its odd the things that set you off.....

My best friend is due (what would have been) 5 weeks before my due date of the baby I lost 3 weeks ago, so I guess she is around 20 weeks. We had planned to go out for lunch today but she has just had to postpone as she hasnt felt the baby move since Wednesday. I feel sick with worry. I am really looking forward to her baby being born because although I know it will be hard at first I really think it will help my healing process. I am also so pleased for her and although we both wanted to be pregnant at same time, I am still looking forward to spending time with her during the summer when she goes on maternity leave. I feel that I will be really close to this baby - it will always be special to me.

Its strange cos I feel so dif about my sisters baby - when I miscarried last Sept she had only just days before told me she was pregnant and due a couple of weeks after me. Its due this month and I feel really bad cos already things dont feel quite right. I feel even worse as her daughter was born only weeks after my first miscarriage and now here I am awaiting the birth of my nephew trying to cope with two more losses since shes been expecting this one.

I hope you will all pray or keep fingers crossed that my friend hears the heartbeat today and that both babies will be born healthy, happy and that their heartbroken Aunt can bond with them both.


Tammy

[Ethansmum]

I'll be thinking of you and the babies Tammy.

Take care.
Tracy.

[Headfry]

Tammy, my heart and thoughts are with you all.
It is a though time for you at the moment. We are all here for you.
HF
xx

[Seahorse]

{{{HUGS}}}

Lots of good thoughts heading to your friend and to you too.

[Headfry]

Any news today Tammy?

[moggssue]

Thinking of you and your friend Tammy - sending lots of positive vibes that all will be well. Big {{{hugs}}}.

[Beki]

((((((((big hugs for you))))))))) you've been through so much already

really hoping everything's fine for your friend xxxx

[Finedon.Dandy]

Just heard that my friends midwife heard the heartbeat and everything seems to be progressing fine - just a bit of a lazy baby (and I predicted it was going to be a girl! LOL!!!). I am so relieved - sorry I keep calling on you guys everytime I have a wobble. I knew I could count on you, thank you for all the lovely messages of support. I will get stronger and just be Fine and Dandy again soon - I promise. Love you all loads.

Tammy

[kirsty b]

Tammy
I am so glad to hear its good news for your friend.

[Seahorse]

So pleased to hear all is well with your friend's baby

Don't forget to look after yourself as well as worrying about other people

[Ethansmum]

Thats great news Tammy

[zazen999]

Great news; and as Seahorse said - take care of you as well as everyone else.

[jackie j]

Its not an easy time for you. My sister was told she couldnt have children and every time I was pregnant I found it really hard to tell her. She had 2 miscarriages in her forty's and had her daughter at 44 yrs sadly my sister had cancer 6 years later and died in oct she so wanted to see her daughter grow up the child she was told she would never have.
Look after yourself Tammy

[Finedon.Dandy]

Jackie - what a totaly sad story. There is nothing I can say - the world can be so cruel sometimes - its not often I am lost for words. I feel very humble so so lucky this morning to have what I have.

Tammy

[Finedon.Dandy]

I am taking care of myself as much as I know how. I am even thinking of trying to get the doctor to do something about my plantar fascitus. I so want to lose some weight before we try to conceive again but because I came off the daily ibuprofen I cant walk both school runs as I would like. I was only advised to take it by a foot doc (cant remember their proper name - sorry if you are one) and dont want to start taking it again (as dont know if it builds up in your system) in case it could affect conception.