We are all gems, and we all are good 'n' right and know what to do with our kids.....good and bad.....right?
Do you know what is right for your child?....right by you?....right by who?....does it suit your neighbour?....or right by the police?....or right by your parents?....or right by your grandparents?.....or right by the police?....or right by the Community at large?....or right by our government?....or right by the world?
I personally feel that this is an extremely emotive subject....I am a very involved parent, but there comes a point at 16 years old and earning an adult style income that you have to let the child/adult live their own lives and accept their own responsibilities for their own actions otherwise how can they ever know that this really is their own lives.
I hate and will not and do not condone some of the things that my child gets up to, but at his age, I do not accompany him to parties and will not accept responsibility for what he does. He has to live and accept, or possibly regret his own actions.
I have tried to prepare, encourage, educate (and I do and will continue to try) my own children, unfortunately (as some people may see it) they will find their own way in life.
Sometimes it takes a bigger person to say that rather than their child is a little git or an outcast that maybe their child/young adult is not the way they want, but is a person all of their own and is entitled to be as such.
I really dislike 'ferral' or 'unruly' kids as I call them, but I feel we could all take a responsible role in letting our kids live....and live to experience what happens if they are bad ie they have to face consequences for their own actions, and there isn't always someone to bail them out....although as mothers, we always love our kids but wont bail them out(or condone) their norty situations!!!
Mrs B x
Do you know what is right for your child?....right by you?....right by who?....does it suit your neighbour?....or right by the police?....or right by your parents?....or right by your grandparents?.....or right by the police?....or right by the Community at large?....or right by our government?....or right by the world?
I personally feel that this is an extremely emotive subject....I am a very involved parent, but there comes a point at 16 years old and earning an adult style income that you have to let the child/adult live their own lives and accept their own responsibilities for their own actions otherwise how can they ever know that this really is their own lives.
I hate and will not and do not condone some of the things that my child gets up to, but at his age, I do not accompany him to parties and will not accept responsibility for what he does. He has to live and accept, or possibly regret his own actions.
I have tried to prepare, encourage, educate (and I do and will continue to try) my own children, unfortunately (as some people may see it) they will find their own way in life.
Sometimes it takes a bigger person to say that rather than their child is a little git or an outcast that maybe their child/young adult is not the way they want, but is a person all of their own and is entitled to be as such.
I really dislike 'ferral' or 'unruly' kids as I call them, but I feel we could all take a responsible role in letting our kids live....and live to experience what happens if they are bad ie they have to face consequences for their own actions, and there isn't always someone to bail them out....although as mothers, we always love our kids but wont bail them out(or condone) their norty situations!!!
Mrs B x
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