totally gobsmacked and horrified

[lynda66]

yeah i'm feeling fine today, would like to know how she is though,

i can definitely deal with the shock of teenagers working and am looking forward to the BBQ even though it's going to rain (its rained on the 17th for the last 5 years, but we just open the end of the gazebo, and put a parasol up ... will be fine....... and i'll have a nice tidy garden

[ailsasyl]

hope rain stays away for the bbq Lynda

[Alice]

Lynda, that's just dreadful for you. I'm sure it will take you a while to get over that. What is most upsetting in these incidents is the constant thoughts of what drove that poor soul to take such drastic action and what dreadful state are they in now.
I hope you can find a way to deal with it and my heart goes out to that poor desperate soul.

[HayleyB]

Gawd blimey, I hope you feel better now. Made me feel ill just reading your posts. Loads of chocolate.

And Heywayne can you post a pic of you in the green thing, I'm sure Lynda can do with a laugh the rest of us won't look - promise

[rayj]

Only just read of your awful experience Lynda. Not pleasant.
Just as well you have your garden to hopefully keep your mind occupied. Hope your melons are firming up??
What about the plants you moved around recently - did they survive??

[Headfry]

Hi Lynda,

Thought I would just check out how you are feeling now, much better I hope
Hugs
HF
x

[lynda66]

yeah, feeling fine ta, can walk down there now, was a bit twitchy to start, but can't avoid it forever can you, i mean, what's the chances of someone else doing the same while i'm walking through.

so yeah, feeling ok, thanks for caring

[jackie j]

Glad to hear that lynda. I still hate driving in lanes as I had an accident on my way to work over 30 yrs ago. Luckily it wasnt serious.

[HeyWayne]

It will get better with time lynda, promise.

When I was 14 I was walking back from a friends house and just as I neared the shops where my mum lives some Asian fella ran out from the shops and planted his head under the rear wheel of the bus as it was pulling away.

Needless to say there wasn't much left of his head afterwards and I can still hear the noise and the screams (I can even tell you what he was wearing), and the state the driver was in afterwards. It all seemed to happen in slow motion in retrospect.

However, it does get easier and you'll learn to live with it. I used to walk past the place every day to get to school.

Apparently the dude was being adulterous and he was found out and his family disowned him.

Glad you're feeling better, and although you'll probably never forget it - it will numb with time.

[Headfry]

Glad your a feeling better,
have a good weekend
HF
x

[rogesse]

Only just picked up on this - aweful, but you seem a strong well humoured person!

I used to live in Preston, the bus depot was a Mecca for jumpers, I didn't witness any but did come back from a visit to parents to find that two doors down on the other side of the road had been the scene of a massacre(3 students in their sleep then the place torched). Some years later in london a friend was 'executed' two doors away. He'd been into hard drugs and not very solvent.....(wasn't aware of this at time but got angry when we started getting funny phone calls).

I hope, with help of loved ones you get over this

Jane

[lynda66]

i grew up in preston jane, at least the bus station is tall enough to kill you

wayne, you have made me feel totally sick, and i had a dream about head crushing buses last night ..... squished brains everywhere yukkkkkk.

[HeyWayne]

wayne, you have made me feel totally sick, and i had a dream about head crushing buses last night ..... squished brains everywhere yukkkkkk.

Ah, sorry about that!

[New_Bud]

:O:O:O
*Hugs*
It's so awful you had to see that!

[Cloud]

We had a similar thing happen here on Weds.He jumped off a bridge over the motorway onto a car and right in front of his 12 year old daughter.
Everyone round here is shocked and feels for the poor child