Arguement

[Farmer_Gyles]

Soon young FG, soon.

no zazen ..... i have (as she keeps reminding me by telephone at least 3 times a day) a girlfriend ..... not an OH, but a girlfriend ....

she has her own house, no plans to shack up with me (or if she has, she hasn't told me yet) .... she won't be contributing to my household income or doing my housework or providing for my children (she doesn't have any kids of her own) ......

however, she has already told me what nights i have to cook for her, how much extra ironing i'll have etc etc etc ..... oh bliss ........

[quark1]

FG - warning signs if I might be so bold?

Good luck - matey!

[lynda66]

FG - warning signs if I might be so bold?

Good luck - matey!

does she bring her own choke chain as well?

[Mikey]

no zazen ..... i have (as she keeps reminding me by telephone at least 3 times a day) a girlfriend ..... not an OH, but a girlfriend ....

she has her own house, no plans to shack up with me (or if she has, she hasn't told me yet) .... she won't be contributing to my household income or doing my housework or providing for my children (she doesn't have any kids of her own) ......

however, she has already told me what nights i have to cook for her, how much extra ironing i'll have etc etc etc ..... oh bliss ........

You don't really need my two pennith dude, but she seems to have bunny boiler tendancies. I can't be doing with overbearing personalities around me, it stops me flapping my wings innit.

[Farmer_Gyles]

s'ok, it'll be a nice change to have someone to cook for other than my son ...

[di]

Just you make sure she cooks for you on the other nights!!

[piskieinboots]

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We spoil you really!

and we love you for it - thank you

[HayleyB]

Oh dear Jackie, you really need to have a chat with him, it doesn't need to be an argument but he does need to understand where you are coming from and that contributing to the household either monetary or effort must be shared or resentfulness will smoulder. If you are doing more work then he should conribute more dosh in other words.

And baggyman, take Mikeys advice and take a hike

[lynda66]

how about showing him this post jackie?? then he can also see other peoples opinions of how he's acting.

[squashysu]

how about showing him this post jackie?? then he can also see other peoples opinions of how he's acting.

yeah and then you will have a divorce on your hands!!!!! cause my OH would love everyone to know about our rows on a gardening forum NOT!!! cor that could add fuel to the fire!

[Mikey]

Does he even know your here SS?

[lynda66]

oh yeah good point ...... stick with the letter or conversation ...... don't show him the post

[squashysu]

Does he even know your here SS?

I dont even know i am here

For gods sake dont show him this thread, he will seriously lose the plot (excuse the pun), i know my OH would!

[zazen999]

no zazen ..... i have (as she keeps reminding me by telephone at least 3 times a day) a girlfriend ..... not an OH, but a girlfriend ....

she has her own house, no plans to shack up with me (or if she has, she hasn't told me yet) .... she won't be contributing to my household income or doing my housework or providing for my children (she doesn't have any kids of her own) ......

however, she has already told me what nights i have to cook for her, how much extra ironing i'll have etc etc etc ..... oh bliss ........

Heh heh heh - just a matter of time my dear. She's a fast worker by the sounds of it.

[Mikey]

No don't lose the plot, think of all the lost veggies.