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  • #46
    Actually, I am feeling quite snubbed Mrs Wellie. You never remark on my insightfulness or astonishing gardening knowledge. The dogs birthday passed by without a mention from you and where is my 'congratulations for nearly having a roof' card??

    Sometimes I wonder about people's perspective on life Ignore them Wellie and get on with what matters to you.
    Tx

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    • #47
      I do not wish every one happy birthday etc etc....and by the time I get to read the thread it is a week old so no point. Does not mean I care any less. This person who pm'd you should realise that there was no intention by you of upsetting them. With such a thin skin how do they get on with life in general.

      Take it with a pinch of salt and forget it...Your posts would be missed .....there you can't go now.
      Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful..William Morris

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      • #48
        W E L L I E W E L O V E Y O U ! ! ! !

        I sometimes miss your attention but know you are such a busy gal doing such clever, wonderful, thoughtful, challenging things that you wont always have time to catch up with lil ole boring, sad, hormonal me! Dont you dare leave - we wont let you!


        *now where did I put that straight jacket*
        Last edited by Finedon.Dandy; 08-10-2008, 06:44 PM.
        Tammy x x x x
        Fine and Dandy but busy as always

        God made rainy days so gardeners could get the housework done


        Stay at home Mum (and proud of it) to Bluebelle(8), Bashfull Bill(6) and twincesses Pea & Pod (2)!!!!

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        • #49
          Wellie - we luv ya! Report 'em and give 'em 'the boot'. Yeah yeah... Bad pun I know.

          Non illigitimii carborundum m'dear.

          So Ma'am - kindly stay put on this forum even if you are most sensibly legging it from our green island fortress.
          Let's go diggin' dirt....

          Big silver bird, come land low and slow
          Cut your engines, cool your wings,
          You've taken me home...

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          • #50
            WTF! How odd! All I can think is that some people depend on the message boards for human contact more than others. Perhaps they just wanted to be friends?

            Don't take it to heart.
            To see a world in a grain of sand
            And a heaven in a wild flower

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            • #51
              OMG i cant believe it! i was only hearing today first hand, how lovely you are.... Well how cowardly of this person to actually PM you, you like I lead a busy life and i dont reply to every thread, but i cant truly believe that someone would do so much as write that awful stuff!

              Dont let them get to you Wellie , you are the sunshine of our life and dont forget it

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              • #52
                As peeps have already said there's some strange people out there - mind you I get so few PMs that I'd probably have just been amazed that anybody had bothered, suppose I don't send them either though.

                Re the birthday thing, it's pretty rare I wish anybody a happy birthday etc on here, never check the thing on the front page which lists who's day it is today anyway. I know a few of you wished me a happy day back in August which was very kind but I didn't and wouldn't expect anybody to bother. Whilst I spend a fair bit of time on here and know bits and pieces about some of you it's not like you're my mum (would be quite upset if she forgot!). But then again, I don't feel the urge to discuss much about my personal life (not knocking those who do, honest!) and wouldn't post if I were pregnant, moving house, won the lottery etc as I have other friends for that sort of thing and prefer to stick to gardening stuff most of the time here as my other friends don't do that much!

                Sorry for a bit of a random post, been a long day but suffice to say, don't understand why somebody would PM Wellie at all. However, if they care that much about an imagined slight by somebody whom I'm presuming they have never met then they're probably quite an insecure person.

                Some of us live in the past, always talking about back then. Some of us live in the future, always planning what we are going to do. And, then there are those, who neither look behind or ahead, but just enjoy the moment of right now.

                Which one are you and is it how you want to be?

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                • #53
                  Mine is the 53rd positive reply to this thread (unless someone sneaks one in whilst I'm composing it!)
                  This level of support alone should prove to you that you are a valuable asset to this forum........

                  Stay where you're wanted and don't let the b*st*rds get you down!
                  My Majesty made for him a garden anew in order
                  to present to him vegetables and all beautiful flowers.- Offerings of Thutmose III to Amon-Ra (1500 BCE)

                  Diversify & prosper


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                  • #54
                    Oh, Wellie!
                    How odd. But the internet is a strange thing, and attracts strange people. I had a 'stalker' on this forum last year, who sent me unsolicited and unwanted private messages. When I put that person on my 'ignore' list, they attacked me publicly.

                    Just rise above it. People do act strangely when they feel they can hide behind their keyboard.
                    xx
                    All gardeners know better than other gardeners." -- Chinese Proverb.

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                    • #55
                      Originally posted by Two_Sheds View Post
                      ...... I had a 'stalker' on this forum last year, who sent me unsolicited and unwanted private messages...
                      me too, but it was this year in my case - some people don't understand online interaction - hopefully Wellie will be reassured when she gets back in here and sees this lot
                      aka
                      Suzie

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                      • #56
                        Don't know what to say to that Wellie, except don't leave. So what if you don't reply to every single thread etc. Like you say your busy, we all are.
                        The Vine for me is somewhere to go for a bit of light chat and fun at the end of the day, certainly not the be all and end all.
                        Besides, I'd miss your blog, your potager is what I'd like my allotment to be like when it grows up!
                        Kirsty b xx

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                        • #57
                          as all above have said please dont go.....ignore the person who sent the message they obviously have a very sad life if they need to hassle people like that, please dont be upset by them they're not worth it
                          The love of gardening is a seed once sown never dies ...

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                          • #58
                            I'd just like to say the person who sent that horrible message to you, is obvioulsy a jealous person, and I hope they read all the messages of good will to you, and maybe they should go back to their slug friends.

                            (My apologies to the others if that sounds too harsh)

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                            • #59
                              Originally posted by wellie View Post
                              I would just publicly like to apologise to each and every member of this forum, for not saying Happy Birthday to you, patting you on the back for becoming Member Of The Month, getting pregnant, having a baby, winning a trophy in your local show, or not crying whilst taking your cat to the vet.

                              I do try hard to spread a little happiness on this forum, but occasionally yes, I will 'miss something', because I lead a busy life, and in no way is it a personal 'snub' towards you.

                              I was therefore mortified to receive a Private Message this morning, telling me that my lack of attention to them is "becoming as obvious as a slap in the face" and that "if it's just general dislike, perhaps I could do a better job of hiding it".

                              On the Plus Side, for me: this person has been assured by someone they've sought a character reference from, that "I'm not like that".

                              So, I'd just like to apologise to that person for not making them feel special enough, and Thank You, I'm flattered that my attention is so important to you.

                              But be assured of one thing, your Private Message has deeply distressed me, and any more personal attacks of that nature, from anyone, I shall have no hesitation in leaving this forum.
                              DON'T let it drive you away!
                              If you quit because of one illegitimate disciple of Onan, they have WON. The rule is "Nil Illegitimi Carborundum". People who send such messages are NOT worth being bothered by!
                              I am a regular poster on a forum where manners often fail to be enforced. The ONLY way to survive is to tell yourself that anyone like that is either 'having a bad day' (in which case they will apologise later) or simply beneath contempt!
                              Flowers come in too many colours to see the world in black-and-white.

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                              • #60
                                With all the good messages on here for wellie we may be able to second guess who it was as so many of us have supported wellie.
                                Gardening ..... begins with daybreak
                                and ends with backache

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