A Very Public Message

[mcsee]

Hi Wellie - Here's some more positive support for you all the way from Australia. I totally agree with the others that you should now report this to Admin, even if it doesn't go any further - this time. Maybe next time it will be someone else.

Ignore the B's and don't let them think they can get away with this again.

mcsee

[SlugLobber]

How strange that someone has the time and energy to even type such a message! Like you, Wellie, I live a busy life, which means that my time spent on t'internet is sporadic. Never thought that people could take such things so personally!! Shame on that PMer!

[Rhona]

Oh dear! What a strange and sad thing to say to you? I must admit I've had to read this thread quickly, but I agree with the messages of support, and general view expressed. You are tremendously upbeat, kind and knowledgable and all used to good effect here!

The only teeny tiny thing I'd say at this relatively late point is that whoever the PM'er is, they will be in no doubt about the strength of feeling here, and might be feeling considerable regret about what they said. Maybe they'd had a rotten time or there are other issues or whatever and it spilled out really inappropriately? I don't know - I'm certainly not defending the behaviour but I suspect the person in question probably doesn't need to be attacked anymore - they will have got the message.

That said, I'm assuming you know who it is, and so you will be in a better place to judge that than me!

Most importantly, I truly hope you feel a bit better today. xxx

[lottie dolly]

With all the good messages on here for wellie we may be able to second guess who it was as so many of us have supported wellie.

well it deffinatly is NOT little old me, ,i am in support of you wellie,and agree with all our other friends,can the person concerned not be named,

[lainey lou]

The only teeny tiny thing I'd say at this relatively late point is that whoever the PM'er is, they will be in no doubt about the strength of feeling here, and might be feeling considerable regret about what they said. Maybe they'd had a rotten time or there are other issues or whatever and it spilled out really inappropriately? I don't know - I'm certainly not defending the behaviour but I suspect the person in question probably doesn't need to be attacked anymore - they will have got the message.

I agree, it's Wellies call but it would be good to draw a line under this now.
I think naming and shaming is unnecessary, we don't want this to turn into a witch hunt.

[Shortie]

I think you're right Lainey and Rhona

I'm sure Wellie can see that she's got lots of support here, and the PM'er probably feels pretty rotten by now. Hope you understand why I've closed the thread Wellie