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Nosy alert - Lynda - What happened with OH?? I missed it!
Maybe she's locked him in the pallet chook house and feeds him through the pop hole?
My Majesty made for him a garden anew in order to present to him vegetables and all beautiful flowers.- Offerings of Thutmose III to Amon-Ra (1500 BCE)
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OK, then today is tomorrow and you promised to reveal, did the courgette taste good
Hayley B
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the courgettes were great ........ well i'm not really sure now .... we had a talk he reckons i'm missing rob more than him (probably true lol) and he's not going to let me dump him, cos i might feel better in a month or two ...... but he has thought about moving down here ...... but not for 3 years ...... soooooo kinda back where i started really, only he's going to try and get down at least once a fortnight, and get his mum to look after the cat.
guess i'm still in limbo a bit, but at least he knows how i feel now, so maybe things will get better??
the courgettes were great ........ well i'm not really sure now .... we had a talk he reckons i'm missing rob more than him (probably true lol) and he's not going to let me dump him, cos i might feel better in a month or two ...... but he has thought about moving down here ...... but not for 3 years ...... soooooo kinda back where i started really, only he's going to try and get down at least once a fortnight, and get his mum to look after the cat.
guess i'm still in limbo a bit, but at least he knows how i feel now, so maybe things will get better??
well it sounds like he has got your number gal
he is probrablt right about you missing Rob more than him, well maybe not more, but I bet it's more that making you feel lonely than him not being there, and he is quite right too not to let you make a decision about the two of you based on missing Rob.
Give it time, get used to Rob leaving home, or see if he Does move back in after uni, concentrate on commuting alternately and see if you can get thing back on track, 3 years might become 2 or one before you know it.
In the meantime, you love each other, and thats got to be better than having no one?
I know what you mean, its the cuddles on demand I miss most, but I have the bratz for that, my on/off OH lives 400 miles away, I get to see him 3 times a year roughly.
but his work is up there, my life is down here, and I won't move the kids from the security of school and family.
he wants to move abroad and i won't *shrug*
I may not own this house, but it's my security, so we compromise.
when the kids are older, they can look after this house, and I will go abroad for a few weeks at a time, until i am either prepared to move totally, or he wants to move back here.
I do miss him, but we talk on the phone a lot, he understands that after so many failed relationships on either side neither of us are prepared to totally commit yet, we still joke all the time that when we reach retirement age we will be together though, sometimes I ache for more, when i am lonely, most times though I am happy with the way things are for now. whatever happens, we will always be best friends, and that means everything.
When I met my OH we were living in different countries! We carried on like that for 4 years, seeing each other every few months. I got to the same position as you and we split up, a few months later we got back together because it was right
Eventually she moved over here ( I never thought she would)
Conclusion...... you never know what will happen, if someone is right, its worth hanging on if you can. Wish you all the best.
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