hi there guys - update & Xmas wishes

[squashysu]

Hi there everyone, hope you all ok and i just been reading some threads, sorry i not been around lots have happened....

I would like to wish you all a very merry christmas and a great new year, now the gossip!!

1. got my first uni assignment back and got B- which was excellent, so happy with that.

2. I am now single again - split with OH 6 weeks ago and he is now looking to move out in the new year!

3. I am hoping for a better 2009 lol!!! cant get any worse than 2008! lol!!

Hope you all well and will catch you all soon, also Sarswix, sorry you are poorly, i hope you get up and going soon, i have now got woman flu, but that still doesnt let me lie around !! lol!

take care all and will be back as soon as i completed my next 3 Uni assignments lol!

Su x

[bobleponge]

Su
Sorry for your bad news but happy for good ones.

Good luck with the next uni assignments, hard work but worth it in the long run.
Woman flu? Pah!!

[lottie dolly]

hi sqashysu,thank you,and seasons greetings to you.
congratulations on you B pass,well done.
sorry about OH situation,{{{ hugs}}}.
hope next year will work out for you.
BTW welcome back

[SueA]

Hi Su,
Sorry to hear about the O.H. but well done on your assignment, hope the others go as well & that you have a good Christmas & New Year!

[Nicos]

2. I am now single again - split with OH 6 weeks ago and he is now looking to move out in the new year!

3. I am hoping for a better 2009 lol!!! cant get any worse than 2008! lol!!


Su x

Ssshhhhh...there are a few single blokes out there squashysu!!!!...they'll be queuing up outside yr door come Xmas morning!!!!

[Two_Sheds]

You sound remarkably chipper Su!
Best wishes for Xmas, and your assignments, and everything else x

[squashysu]

thanks for your kind words guys xx

i am a bit chipper, considering i have that dreaded man flu! onwards and upwards i say!!

Nico's, i am hoping that prince charming will come along soon, mind you i may nick the white horse first lol!!

The good thing to come out of all the stress is the weight loss of 1.5 stone in about 6/8 weeks (every little helps lol)

Take care everyone and hoping that a fitter, thinner SS will be around soon

xxxx

[Stacey Steve]

Lost weight? Don't, you'll disappear !

[squashysu]

Dear SS, I am so sorry to disappoint you, but the avatar is not me, its Courtney Cox!!! lol, i am far more rotund you see, lol!!!

Arrr i bet you all thought i was glam lol!! and in fact i am not lol!!!!

[MaureenHall]

Ssshhhhh...there are a few single blokes out there squashysu!!!!...they'll be queuing up outside yr door come Xmas morning!!!!

If you get any spare, will you pass them on to me next please?

[Snadger]

Dear SS, I am so sorry to disappoint you, but the avatar is not me, its Courtney Cox!!! lol, i am far more rotund you see, lol!!!

Arrr i bet you all thought i was glam lol!! and in fact i am not lol!!!!

Gutted!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Have a good Crimbo Squashycourtney and good luck with the studying!

[Stacey Steve]

That means I could have an avatar that makes me look good, now who or what should I be?

[jackie j]

Squashysu sorry to hear your news regarding OH, I lst one and a half stone when I split with my ex OH 17 years ago, best thing I ever did and I pondered what to do from the October till the february that christmas was awful cos he didnt know and I was trying for my childrens sake to keep going, should I leave them all or should I kick him out, when you have four children to consisder what to do for the best is hard. I chose to stay my birthday is in January and my ex inlaws sent some friends of theirs round to talk to me on my birthday, it was nothing to do with any of them I walked out and phoned my sister and she fetched me.
I did meet someone else and he took on my sons who at the time were aged from 6years to 16 years which was hard for him cos he didnt have any children. I am not saying he was great with them cos there are lots of things he could have done to make things better.
Give yourself lots of time and have fun there is someone else out there for you, but take it slowly.
Good luck for the future especially with your exams.
Have a very Happy Christmas I am sure you will now you have had a lot of weight lifted from your shoulders.
Hugs to you and your family.
Jackie

[Rhona]

Hello lovely! Huge congrats on the uni stuff - that's brilliant news. Sorry about the split and hope you still manage to have a lovely Chrimbo and here's to 2009 being tons better for you! xxx

[squashysu]

I wanna say how lovely you all are and a huge thank you!

It has been so hard, having 3 kids as well that do adore their father (i will never ever try and change that) but after 16 years of me doing all the hard work and trying to hold everything together, it was a decision I had to make and I am not sad and I know it will be best in the long run!

At the ripe age of 41, I have decided that life is not a dress rehearsal and live for the day, I am a happy, cheery person and wont let anything drag me down, so I am seeing 2009 as the year of SS rising from the ashes and letting her hair down lol!!!

Ps. SS, if you want to check what I really look like their are pics on my profile lol (me being the blonde - but please note i am now 2 stone lighter lol)

Have a great Sunday you guys and thanks again xxxxx