is hanging too good for him?

[smallblueplanet]

No-one but you & Mr 2-sheds really know the ins & outs of your relationship, but if you let him treat you this way he seems happy to do so.

I hope you two can resolve things so you are both happy. Good luck.

[shoreham_steve]

I've been following this thread silently and it may now be time for me to apologise on behalf of men.
Good luck, TwoSheds.
It may indeed be time for you to take a sharp knife and shed his two !
Merry Christmas.

[Glutton4...]

Well. I waited, and waited, all weekend, for a sincere apology.

I listened as a few of his mates rang him and he said "yeah, massive session, really good, missed my train home, har har" sort of thing.
He sat on his arris all day watching TV while I cooked and cleaned, as per. He had some beers and toast, and left all the crumbs and tins in the sink (cos it's a bin, apparently).

Irritation rising

Then he said, from his couch: "I'm waiting for my tea" and I'm afraid my lid blew, big time.

I'm only an hour and a half from you TS - I'm coming up there to punch him senseless myself - put the kettle on...

[RedThorn]

Well. I waited, and waited, all weekend, for a sincere apology.

I listened as a few of his mates rang him and he said "yeah, massive session, really good, missed my train home, har har" sort of thing.
He sat on his arris all day watching TV while I cooked and cleaned, as per. He had some beers and toast, and left all the crumbs and tins in the sink (cos it's a bin, apparently).

Irritation rising

Then he said, from his couch: "I'm waiting for my tea" and I'm afraid my lid blew, big time.

*shakes head* and *shakes head again!*

My response would have been well get off your arris and make it yourself...oh and make me one too while you're at it!

[Jeanied]

Guts and garters spring to mind TS - chuck him out in the middle of the night in the snow!

[piskieinboots]

I've been following this thread silently and it may now be time for me to apologise on behalf of men.

I don't believe you should do that Steve, not all men (as with women) are the same - you don't need to speak up for the dodgy (no reference to Mr TS) ones.

Snowdrop is a cracker, he doesn't ever see what needs doing, but he jumps to the minute I ask him to do anything, he is a superb cook, he irons better than I do and puts me above everything - except maybe Liz during a Nuke attack

[Seahorse]

Oh dear T_S I think the very least he could have done was be contrite.

(hugs)

[lizzylemon]

..... except maybe Liz during a Nuke attack

How did you know about my going 'nuclear'?! Once in a blue moon and everyone knows!! Honestly!!

[lizzylemon]

under the compost heap? Must admit, I am curious as to how this one has turned out.
I reckon 'doing a Mr Sheds' will definitely go down as a new slang term!

He's lucky in my house the term would have been 'as dead as mr 2sheds'

[lizzylemon]

OMG I'm not surprised you blew, just amazed you managed to keep it on for so long. Big Hugs to you.

He so reminds of an ex of mine I tempted to suggest some major spring cleaning in the New Year but only you can decide what you have and whether it's worth saving. I got rid of mine after 5 years and now married to a much kinder, thoughtful and generous (most of the time anyway - he has off times but that's another story) man. XXX

[Herbie]

Been reading the thread. OMG !!! [[Big Hugs]] to two sheds, hope you manage to sort things out. xxxxx

[northmaid]

So sorry T-S, you sound like a really lovely lady and this a***hole is definitely not showing you the respect you deserve. It seems from his subsequent behaviour that he never will, does he even realise what damage he's doing? As other grapes have said only you can determine whether he's worth the hassle. Give me a shout if you need help in disposing of any body parts!

[Brengirl]

Just give us the nod Two Sheds and the deed will be done.....

[HayleyB]

Speechless, for once.......

[Flummery]

He must have some good points - or why would you keep him?