I am curious to know people's opinions on this as it's a matter that seems to cause arguments with my mum a lot!
She picked my son up from school today and gave him a few sweets. I have no prob with this, but then she leaves the packets at ours for the children to eat. My children do get sweets but not vast quantities of them. I asked her to take them home today as we haven't opened the ones she sent last time yet!
She gets a bit huffy and says she doesn't see them very often and likes to give them treats. Makes me feel mean for not letting them eat them all, even though their tea is only an hour away.
I can understand tthe not seeing them so wanting to spoil them (but actually she sees them at least twice a week and more in the holidays), plus both great nannies like to give them sweets and Aunty.....and so it goes on!
I have always been a big lass and presumably some of this is down to the fact that a sa child I was constanyl given sweets by well meaning relaitives who wanted to spoil me!
I have said to the rellies that if they want to treat the children a few pennies kept in a jar is fine or a cheapy book etc or, or just to sit with them and do a puzzle or the like is much appreciated - why does it always have to be food related?!?
I am the only one why has to battle with their relations about this?
ps we had so much easter chocolate last year that at xmas I was still using it up for baking!
She picked my son up from school today and gave him a few sweets. I have no prob with this, but then she leaves the packets at ours for the children to eat. My children do get sweets but not vast quantities of them. I asked her to take them home today as we haven't opened the ones she sent last time yet!
She gets a bit huffy and says she doesn't see them very often and likes to give them treats. Makes me feel mean for not letting them eat them all, even though their tea is only an hour away.
I can understand tthe not seeing them so wanting to spoil them (but actually she sees them at least twice a week and more in the holidays), plus both great nannies like to give them sweets and Aunty.....and so it goes on!
I have always been a big lass and presumably some of this is down to the fact that a sa child I was constanyl given sweets by well meaning relaitives who wanted to spoil me!
I have said to the rellies that if they want to treat the children a few pennies kept in a jar is fine or a cheapy book etc or, or just to sit with them and do a puzzle or the like is much appreciated - why does it always have to be food related?!?
I am the only one why has to battle with their relations about this?
ps we had so much easter chocolate last year that at xmas I was still using it up for baking!
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