Sick cat. Vet no clue.

[Peas'n'Kews]

My heart is breaking for you. Good luck, if it comes to it, at least you get to hold her at the end....

[kirsty b]

Poor cat, I really hope you start getting some real answers soon. It must be heartbreaking for you at the moment xx

Best wishes to you and Brody

[donnakebab]

Brody is having more blood tests and a scan on Monday. If these are inconclusive I'm going to call time no matter what daughter says.

My other daughter is coming home for a short visit today . I think she'll have a shock when she sees her.

[Aberdeenplotter]

When our puss cat developed an inoperable growth we were warned she would go downhill gradually but that we would know ourselves when the time came what needed to be done. That proved to be totally correct but it didn't stop it being the worst decision I've ever had to make.

The important thing is to remember that whatever decision you make, make it for the benefit of your own puss cat. It's one thing to keep it going for its sake. Totally different to keep it going for the sake of the family.

You do have my heart felt sympathy.

[donnakebab]

Well it's all over now anyway. When I got up this morning I found her lying in her litter tray. She died on my daughters lap on the way to the vet. It was pneumonia that finished her off and we'll never know what the original illness was. The vet nurse couldn't believe she was only 8, she looked like a really old cat.

She's buried in the garden now along with 3 others. Just need to think of something to plant on top of her.

Thanks for all the messages and support. It's a relief now. If we do go somewhere at the end I hope all my pets are there too.

[veggiechicken]

((((( Hugs)))))).

[lottie dolly]

Awe, sorry for the lost of your friend Donna,nature had it's own way in the end,we dont have pets,but can understand from peeps we know just how preciouse they are to those who own them,at least she has no more pain,am positive you will meet her again,1 day

[mandyballantyne]

So sorry to hear about your loss, at least there is no more pain for your puss.

I hope you are all ok xx

[SarrissUK]

Sorry to hear about your loss Donna, but I know what you mean when you say it's a relief. It's sometimes harder to see them suffer and how helpless you feel when you can't do anything to make it better, than to let them go. Big hugs to you

[ladylottie]

O Donna I'm so sorry that your precious cat has gone. At least you know that you tried everything possible to get her well again and in the end didn't have to make any awful decisions yourself.

It's terrible for us to have to stand by and watch them suffer isn't it because they are part of our families, not just pets.

[Creemteez]

Big hugs, Donna. Another little soul now chasing butterflies in "The Big Meadow". Try and remember the happy times before she got ill. xx

[Headfry]

I am so sorry, biggest hugs to you all. I know how it hurts. sorry, so sorry
She is peaceful now.
All my love....xx

[kirsty b]

Hugs xx xx

[mothhawk]

((((Hugs)))))

The risk of love is loss, and the price of loss is grief.

[its hilly]

I agree with LD. You'll meet again. So sorry Donna x
My friends have had snowdrops, narcissus, oriental poppies, rowan, geraniums....cant remember what else just things that suited their personalities.