So has he posted it as an 'open' event on FB ? Maybe some of us could invite ourselves along
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Originally posted by binley100 View PostSo has he posted it as an 'open' event on FB ? Maybe some of us could invite ourselves along
Note, I have no intention of going, never did...hence not paying attention until I found out he had been hassling Beth. Which I was annoyed about due to a bereavement...she didn't need that going on when I had already stated our intentions.
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Originally posted by Scarlet View PostYes, he is an ar$e!! Stuff like this gives me sleepless nights! Can you just say there is no produce available that month? Although donations will be graciously accepted...
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Originally posted by zazen999 View PostI have posted that it's the opposite of a harvest festival. Taking from people who deserve it and giving it to people who can afford it.
The Sheriff is totally out of order, capture him and put him in the stocks so that all can mock him and pelt him with rotten veggies. He is a bounder and a rogue!
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Having noseyed into this a bit further, I still don't think you're being unreasonable. If he wasn't selling it as being 'a community event' in order to get food donations, it wouldn't be so bad, in fact as a fundraiser it's a reasonable idea. The problem comes when you find it hasn't been advertised anywhere but his little FoE page on FB. No local advertising at all. And, as you say, all people who can afford tickets...
And, I can't see where the money raised is going? Is it on local projects, or into a central FoE pot?
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I really dislike it when charities try and badger you, and I like it even less when they try and guilt trip you.
I think you are right to stand your ground but I'm not sure I would have replied in the same manner. I would have made it clear that you would be unable to support the event as it did not adhere to your strict guidelines of provision, and left it at that.
You never know when and who's support you might need in the future and diplomacy can be a difficult pill to swallow.I'm only here cos I got on the wrong bus.
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Originally posted by chris View PostQuite surprised no one from the silly brigade has come in
Late on parade,sorry Chris
Someone get the smelling salts ready
Stick it to him ZazHe who smiles in the face of adversity,has already decided who to blame
Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity
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Problem is you now seem to be in an arguement with him. Would have been easier to have sidestepped everything - maybe have said that unsure of the situation concerning the amount of produce available and would need to distribute produce first as required by your conditions of being a community garden. Then ignored him.
Suggest you don't go via a phone as there is no "copy" of what he says, emails may be used against him if he is being difficult. Copies of email can be sent to the next 2 steps up of FOTE and complain, do not go up just one step as the person there may be a friend. Phones are useful but then he says you got it wrong and he didn't say what you are saying he did.
FOTE are nothing or little to do with garden produce. Could point out that FOTE could be showing what can be purchased that fits in with good practices. Thus showing people at the event how to purchase responsibly from the high street, and as a local additional supporting the local high street shops. The idea being to show what can be sold and purchased from a responsible source not begged from one.
Really 2 options, ignore him and hope he goes away - if you have caller display get someone else to answer the phone unless you recognise the number as not being him. Easy for someone else to say no idea what the situation is and they cannot commit anything.
Hell, just lie and say that someone in your group who is NOT a friend of FOTE has said that if you give produce away to outside of the group they will complain, and you could lose the garden under the agreement you have.
Create an email address called GDNCommittee@something and get him to put a request in to that, and it will get discussed at the next meeting. That "meeting" can be held say the first week of December when you all sit down to discuss the success oif this year and decide what to plant for next year, or even next year (Feb 31 is a good date).
Could contact FOTE higher up and complain about being harrassed. You appear to have the condition that produce has to go to the immediate people and so is not for distribution outside of that. The alternative being the possible removal of the community garden. Your point being that a member of FOTE are pressurising you into putting the garden at risk.
One thing about Facebook is that it can also be used against the person, do you know someone that can link from/to his page to a page complaining about the harrassment. FOTE will not like a problem of their potential creating being aired on Facebook.
Best to not argue, sidestep it all and just ignore them I would say if possible. Next time be better prepared, there will be a next time, from one source or another.
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Originally posted by Kirk View PostProblem is you now seem to be in an arguement with him. Would have been easier to have sidestepped everything - maybe have said that unsure of the situation concerning the amount of produce available and would need to distribute produce first as required by your conditions of being a community garden. Then ignored him.
Suggest you don't go via a phone as there is no "copy" of what he says, emails may be used against him if he is being difficult. Copies of email can be sent to the next 2 steps up of FOTE and complain, do not go up just one step as the person there may be a friend. Phones are useful but then he says you got it wrong and he didn't say what you are saying he did.
FOTE are nothing or little to do with garden produce. Could point out that FOTE could be showing what can be purchased that fits in with good practices. Thus showing people at the event how to purchase responsibly from the high street, and as a local additional supporting the local high street shops. The idea being to show what can be sold and purchased from a responsible source not begged from one.
Really 2 options, ignore him and hope he goes away - if you have caller display get someone else to answer the phone unless you recognise the number as not being him. Easy for someone else to say no idea what the situation is and they cannot commit anything.
Hell, just lie and say that someone in your group who is NOT a friend of FOTE has said that if you give produce away to outside of the group they will complain, and you could lose the garden under the agreement you have.
Create an email address called GDNCommittee@something and get him to put a request in to that, and it will get discussed at the next meeting. That "meeting" can be held say the first week of December when you all sit down to discuss the success oif this year and decide what to plant for next year, or even next year (Feb 31 is a good date).
Could contact FOTE higher up and complain about being harrassed. You appear to have the condition that produce has to go to the immediate people and so is not for distribution outside of that. The alternative being the possible removal of the community garden. Your point being that a member of FOTE are pressurising you into putting the garden at risk.
One thing about Facebook is that it can also be used against the person, do you know someone that can link from/to his page to a page complaining about the harrassment. FOTE will not like a problem of their potential creating being aired on Facebook.
Best to not argue, sidestep it all and just ignore them I would say if possible. Next time be better prepared, there will be a next time, from one source or another.
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