My loss

[lettucegrow!]

This is very difficult to write but thought I'd let u all know why I have not been around. I know I haven't been here as much ad if like as we'd had holiday and working life etc seems to have been very busy but life has now been turned upside down as my husband suddenly passed away two weeks ago. He was only 46 and at the moment everything is a haze. Ha had a stroke and I found him after going out for a couple if hours. No warnings, no feeling ill.
I'm now going to be that nagging cow about smoking and a bit too much drink and getting checked out, especially you men! Notoriously bad about not going to docs.
Anyway, just thought I'd post message and hope everyone's well and happy. I've always enjoyed this site and think I will be visiting an awful lot more.

[Bigmallly]

Oh dear LG, that is so sad, I am so sorry for your loss & so young........... What a terrible shock it must have been. I don't know what else to say except take care, I hope you have family members for support. Pop onto the vine as & when you feel up to it.

[veggiechicken]

I'm so so sorry LG. Like BM, I'm lost for words so have a (((((hug))))) instead. Its what I would do if you were here.
Whenever you feel like a chat, or need a shoulder to lean or cry on we're here for you.
Look after yourself now and stay in touch.xx

[Dorothy rouse]

So very sorry to hear about your loss, it must be very hard for you. I do hope you have friends and family around you who can help and support you. No words can ease your pain at this moment in time. Take care. Xx

DottyR

[Two_Sheds]

What a terrible thing to happen

[mothhawk]

So, so sorry LG. What a tragic loss and terrible shock for you and your family. Sending (((hugs))) your way. You're facing a lot of stress right now, I'm sure, but as VC and BM say, the vine is always here if you need a chat or a shoulder. Do take care and look after yourself.

[Bill HH]

I am so sorry to hear this, even though I am fairy new here and dont know you. Sometime life is so cruel.

[susieq100]

Oh LG, so sorry for your loss. There is nothing anyone can really say that will make it 'better', but be sure that we all feel for you. I know when my first husband died it all seemed totally 'unreal' for a while. You just have to dig in and do your everyday things, for me there was some comfort in routine. If you want to chat, PM me.

[Bren In Pots]

Really sorry to read your post LG it must have been very difficult to write. We're all here for you when you fancy a chat.

[zazen999]

What a terrible shock and such a sad loss.

[scarey55]

That's terrible! I don't really know what to say. As has been said already, we are always here and there will be cake and a hug whenever you need it. Take care of yourself x

[Martin H]

How awful, you have my sympathy.

[PyreneesPlot]

So sorry to read your post. Life must seem so unfair right now, but this is a good place to let it all out.

[julesapple]

Oh my gosh...what to say?

There is nothing we can say that will take away your pain. If mere words could do that, we would write you books,fill the screen with words. If only it would work.

I am so very, very, sorry for your loss.

[alldigging]

Deepest sympathies.