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    Mixed Emotions

    Well, what a strange day it's been today. I posted a farewell thread on the work forum yesterday thinking maybe getting 30-40 hits in a 24hr period with a couple of replies. On leaving work today I had over 1300 hits.......................but what got me more than anything were the really kind posts I received from friends I haven't seen in years. I know I am doing the right thing by retiring, there is no doubt there but after 30+ years, work has become my social life & extended family. I felt really sad for the first time......is it normal to feel this way or am I just being over sensitive?
    sigpic“Gorillas are very intelligent, but they don't have to be as delicate as chimps -- they can just smash open the termite nest,”
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    I don't think you're being over sensitive you've been involved ther for 30 years , thats a lot of involved .....of course it's going to be odd when you don't have to be there anymore. You will have a void to fill so go fill and enjoy
    S*d the housework I have a lottie to dig
    a batch of jam is always an act of creation ..Christine Ferber

    You can't beat a bit of garden porn

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Bigmallly View Post
      Well, what a strange day it's been today. I posted a farewell thread on the work forum yesterday thinking maybe getting 30-40 hits in a 24hr period with a couple of replies. On leaving work today I had over 1300 hits.......................but what got me more than anything were the really kind posts I received from friends I haven't seen in years. I know I am doing the right thing by retiring, there is no doubt there but after 30+ years, work has become my social life & extended family. I felt really sad for the first time......is it normal to feel this way or am I just being over sensitive?
      Course it's normal, my husband retired in March after 40 years working for the same boss, it has taken him over six months to fit into the new regime, but he's made it now . He fixed the fridge door, oven door and finally the back door today lol. Highs and lows there will be, but now it's time for you Bigmally, enjoy


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      • #4
        If you are happy in your work & with your colleagues,then I would say it was normal bud
        He who smiles in the face of adversity,has already decided who to blame

        Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity

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        • #5
          Thanks, I know exactly what you mean.........it just seems to have gone from excitement to OMG........maybe it is just hitting home.
          sigpic“Gorillas are very intelligent, but they don't have to be as delicate as chimps -- they can just smash open the termite nest,”
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          • #6
            It's a bit of fear of the unknown creeping in .....I had it earlier this year with changing jobs even with the reasons for changing . You'll be fine.....we'll all make sure on that one..
            S*d the housework I have a lottie to dig
            a batch of jam is always an act of creation ..Christine Ferber

            You can't beat a bit of garden porn

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            • #7
              Mrs.BB is about 9 weeks away from retiring & is up & down like a yoyo bud
              He who smiles in the face of adversity,has already decided who to blame

              Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity

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              • #8
                Cheers Bins.......I'm sure the emotions will get worse before they get better.
                sigpic“Gorillas are very intelligent, but they don't have to be as delicate as chimps -- they can just smash open the termite nest,”
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                • #9
                  Originally posted by bearded bloke View Post
                  Mrs.BB is about 9 weeks away from retiring & is up & down like a yoyo bud
                  It's good to know it's not only me then BB.
                  sigpic“Gorillas are very intelligent, but they don't have to be as delicate as chimps -- they can just smash open the termite nest,”
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                  • #10
                    You will feel a bit strange for a while. I took voluntary redundancy just over a year ago and it does take a while to find a new rhythm to your life. We also moved to France so it's been a huge change, but gardening has helped settle me in to both a new country and life without work.

                    But it sounds that like me you were probably ready to leave, and that's half the battle. This Monday afternoon we were walking through the woods in gorgeous sunshine and my wife said, "...this really does beat work doesnt it?"
                    These moments have made the initial feelings of "OMG what do I do now?" fade right away. You'll be fine!
                    Last edited by datz; 11-12-2013, 08:50 PM.
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                    • #11
                      Even works for the same "firm" as you I believe
                      He who smiles in the face of adversity,has already decided who to blame

                      Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity

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                      • #12
                        Its a very BIG change in your life, so there are bound to be some strong emotions.

                        But keep your thoughts on the opportunities you are now presented with, you will have a great time once your settled in.

                        Good luck matey.

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                        • #13
                          Congratulations on your retirement,the secret is to remain active,so chill out then monkey around,in other words have fun,in a few months time,you will wonder HOW you found the time to go to work in the first place
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                          • #14
                            Thanks, I'm starting to warm to the idea again.........I knew you would pull me round...........
                            sigpic“Gorillas are very intelligent, but they don't have to be as delicate as chimps -- they can just smash open the termite nest,”
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                            Sent from my ZX Spectrum with no predictive text..........
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                            KOYS - King Of Yellow Stickers..............

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                            • #15
                              You've just opened the door to a new room in your life, you're bound to feel a bit odd. The kind comments say a lot about you and how you'll be missed - here's to the next chapter
                              Last edited by scarey55; 11-12-2013, 09:25 PM. Reason: Say, not says!
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