in shock my dad died

[Nicos]

People you love never really leave your heart...I still talk to my father from time to time- and he died back in the 1970s.

[out in the cold]

Sorry to hear your bad news Bojangles.

It might not seem like it right now, but things will get better.

Your sister is probably in shock too, and it may be that lashing out at not being involved is her way of coping with her own stress.

[lettucegrow!]

I'm so sorry to read your sad news. You've had a lot to cope with and sudden death is extremely hard to cope with.
Just take one hour/day at a time and as someone else has said be very kind to yourself. If you just want to curl up and stare out the window for a while, do just that. Take care, thinking of you .x

[maytreefrannie]

Sorry to hear your sad news, Bojangles.
I agree with those others who said that your sister is probably reacting to the grief of losing your dad. I hope you and your family with be close during this time. Be good to yourself if you can and to those others you are close to.
Best wishes to you and all; you're in our thoughts.