My rant? Lumpy's day.
And headaches.
Oh! oh! I've got another one. 7yo managed to acquire a black eye by thumping the side of his head on his bunk in the night. I explained the injury when I dropped him off at his holiday club, and got the response of a suspicious look and a long, sceptical, "hmmm...."
Felt like saying, "No, I didn't give him this black eye, but I will happily supply you with one, if you like?"
It's actually really upset me, because the 7yo has all sorts of (thankfully mild) behavioural issues because of past trauma (He's adopted, came to us when he was two. And, btw, brought with him a bolt of such pure, wild, unadulerated joy, I have been his slave ever since) and because we've been working really hard at helping him feel more secure, we've hit a really happy place as a family which feels beautiful, but also fragile. The thought of contact with social services re-traumatising him at this stage is so offensive and frightening...
That said, I know a) it's not that likely: I had a meeting (at my request) with the holiday club manager recently to discuss how best to support the 7yo and b) if they think he is at risk, it's only right and proper they should act on it.
But mostly I wish she'd had the decency to pretend she believed me, so I hadn't had to work to hard at keeping my own anxiety in check today... Grrrr.
And headaches.
Oh! oh! I've got another one. 7yo managed to acquire a black eye by thumping the side of his head on his bunk in the night. I explained the injury when I dropped him off at his holiday club, and got the response of a suspicious look and a long, sceptical, "hmmm...."
Felt like saying, "No, I didn't give him this black eye, but I will happily supply you with one, if you like?"
It's actually really upset me, because the 7yo has all sorts of (thankfully mild) behavioural issues because of past trauma (He's adopted, came to us when he was two. And, btw, brought with him a bolt of such pure, wild, unadulerated joy, I have been his slave ever since) and because we've been working really hard at helping him feel more secure, we've hit a really happy place as a family which feels beautiful, but also fragile. The thought of contact with social services re-traumatising him at this stage is so offensive and frightening...
That said, I know a) it's not that likely: I had a meeting (at my request) with the holiday club manager recently to discuss how best to support the 7yo and b) if they think he is at risk, it's only right and proper they should act on it.
But mostly I wish she'd had the decency to pretend she believed me, so I hadn't had to work to hard at keeping my own anxiety in check today... Grrrr.
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