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  • Said Goodbye to Marigold:(

    It was hard,but tonight we knew the only kind thing to do was put her out of her suffering

    We got her and her sis Dandelion almost two years ago.We'd had the ISA's for a couple of months and wanted to add a couple of 'pets' to the flock.
    Last year she hatched(almost)our first lot of chicks and it seems that since then she was never really quite right.We had a Summer of frequent bum cleaning and I don't think she ever started laying again...but she'd perk up at food time and although distant seemed happy.Over winter the need to clean her stopped and I really thought we'd turned a corner but then come Spring the dirty bum was back...I've lost count of the cleans she's already had this yearI came close a couple of weeks ago to getting a friend to do the deed.
    Tonight she looked particularly pathetic and I noticed some blood spots in the coop...immediately knew it had to be from her...checked her vent and she had fly strike...I toyed with the idea of trying to clean her upand treat it but in my heart knew that although I 'might' be able to rectify it,the underlying cause would still be there.
    Neither I nor Andi could bring ourselves to do it so I spent an hour walking the lottie asking if anyone could...almost gave up and saw a couple I'd never met before.Felt a little odd introducing myself and immediately asking him if he could do it,initially he said no but when he realised she was suffering came over and helped...for which I shall forever feel indebted.

    Feeling a bit crap...she was my first favourite and her and Dandelion had remained Mother Hens amongst the group...there was an unusual amount of squabbling going on in the coop when they put themselves to bed,so they obviously realise she's gone...hopefully things will settle fairly quickly.
    the fates lead him who will;him who won't they drag.

    Happiness is not having what you want,but wanting what you have.xx

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    So sorry for the loss of your girlie. Sleep tight Marigold.x

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    • #3
      So sorry, had a similar problem a few months back and I had no-one to ask, am so glad you found someone to help xx

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      • #4
        Thanks...I'm actually feeling pretty guilty about roping someone I didn't even know into doing it...he said he'd done it in the past,but I still don't think it was something he enjoyed,I hope I've not spoilt his weekend.
        the fates lead him who will;him who won't they drag.

        Happiness is not having what you want,but wanting what you have.xx

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        • #5
          He will be feeling ok, 'cos he's rescued a chook lover in distress! which will make up for the downer, having now become the person who is asked to do the deed I know this! xx

          p.s. wouldn't trust my hens to someone who liked killing chooks anyway!
          Last edited by CoraxAurata; 29-05-2010, 01:35 AM.

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          • #6
            Awwww...that's sad.
            You've done the right thing though- and what a kind bloke..I bet he wasn't expecting to be doing that when he got up yesterday.
            Can you get him a little pressie as a thankyou? maybe a few eggs????

            Sleep tight Marigold xx
            "Nicos, Queen of Gooooogle" and... GYO's own Miss Marple

            Location....Normandy France

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            • #7
              You've done exactly the right thing however hard. It happened to me four years ago with a rabbit, a well loved old pet that had needed constant cleaning and despite a flynet that's how I found her. My neighbour, a capable french lady in her late sixties helped me out, I was so grateful to her. RIP marigold and big hugs to you.

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              • #8
                Awww, bless you both, I would of done the same thing.
                Big cyber hugs to you both

                RIP Marigold x

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                • #9
                  Aww poor you, such a shame that you had to do this, but nice that somebody was kind enough to help out. ((hugs))
                  Kirsty b xx

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                  • #10
                    So sorry to hear that Di. I had one of my ex-batts that happened to. Thankfully my next door neighbour was available to cull her for me though if he hadn't been I'd have done it myself (with difficulty). Since then I've purchased a hand-held dispatcher as I don't think I have the strength in my hands to dispatch efficiently. I know there is dispute about these but I balanced out the stress for the bird of a bungled dispatch or being able to calm them and dispatch quickly if I needed to. I was advised to get one by a couple of very knowledgeable chook folk and in fact was able to "do the deed" myself on one occasion. I hated every nanosecond but now know at least I can if I have to.
                    RIP Marigold and {{{{hugs}}}} to you.x
                    Sue

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                    • #11
                      There's usually someone up there that would have done it for us,but sods law...last night none of them were about.
                      I think I'll make the chap some chocolate brownies and give him half a dozen (or more) eggs.
                      Things were a little odd up there this morning...Good Old Lady Buff kept things in order...do we have the only Bossy Buff Orpington?
                      Thanks for all your lovely words.xxx
                      the fates lead him who will;him who won't they drag.

                      Happiness is not having what you want,but wanting what you have.xx

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                      • #12
                        Oh what a hard decision to have to make Di. What a compassionate man to help you out, too. RIP little hen. I hope the others soon settle.
                        Whoever plants a garden believes in the future.

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                        • #13
                          Aww that is sad, I know its hard to do but it was for the best, best for Marigold! Good on to the guy that helped you as well, its nice to know that you can find someone like him in your time of need! More strength to the 2 of you, I know you will feel better about it in a little while, when you have had time to get used to her not being around! I believe that time is not a healer, just that with passing time comes acceptance! Things dont appear to be as bad as in the early days! ((((BIG HUGZZZ....)))
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                          Love like you never loved before!

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                          • #14
                            Sorry to hear your news x

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                            • #15
                              Big hugs {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Andi and Di, so sorry to hear that she's gone. Sleep well Marigold
                              My girls found their way into my heart and now they nest there

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